Tuesday, September 27, 2005

umm kester is bugging me to link me...but hey...i haven't linked anyone in ages...i'm just toooooo lazy...honestly..i'm really sorry but many times i just lack to commitment to link EVERyone and read everyone's blog...it is impossible.

recently everyone's been going crazy...our class with the addition of chongwee's giggles, a paper crane and ian's antics has become quite a bit more feminine...and we have to thank tedkin for providing some sort of balance....and i guess i make it a bit worse by being there..
It's a natural thing for boys to degenerate in an all boys' school....too bad

God bless Ian for his guitar exams!!! good show today at amath!


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well somehow because i see that ian is thoroughly offended by both LCE and the likes of all of us....shall continue to post in response.

well if you guys haven't seen the tag on ian's board...i kinda feel its important to repeat it here...not that i'm always trying to be the goodie 2 shoes or wadever...but i feel that sometimes we got to learn how to laugh at ourselves...to take a joke....a possible insult....or you know...the insult could have been unintentional and wouldn't be an insult if we were just a tinsy winsy bit less sensitive. Life would definitely be more positive and happier if we learnt to take the comments thrown at us and if we learnt to laugh at ourselves sometimes....

sure...you say i don't have first hand experience...well being top in sec 1 and 2 mean constant comments of being smart...whispers and joy when someone beats in in the latest zuowen...or other stuff....and after countless times of that...i'm still not really miffed (as ding puts it). Plus...countless comments have also been made about me....ummm how i'm like...how i look...that kinda stuff...but i try as hard as possible to laugh it off and get over with it!!!

Take it from one sensitive person to another...i think we should all be less sensitive....but to a certain extent...everything is about balance. Too sensitive and people will start to stay away from you....like who wants to stay near a bomb that's abt to explode...or someone who is easily offended....too insensitive and you'll be shunned from as well. well it isn't easy...i have my problems dealing with this as well.

as for ian and my previous blogpost...well i'm sorry if i was insensitive...but honestly...i think LCE really meant it as a joke...not directed at you and chongwee but rather at the class as a whole...after all it is not just ian who seats on people's laps...(or is it...nah). And yea if you just look at it from a wider perspective...you'd probably realise this as well.

btw i agree that Chongwee's a good friend...sure he seemed weird at first...but somehow he's always able to sense if something's up with you and then he'll come over and ask if anything's wrong...that kinda thing.....

well i gtg now...i hope ian reads this and i hope this will shed some light on the matter....lighten up! (ahahah pun) and then ppl will call me lame...but you know wad...i'll laugh it off :P

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